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	<![if !supportLists]><b><span>1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></b><![endif]>
	<b><span>De la negare spre recuperare<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
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	<strong><span><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></strong></p>
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	<strong><span>Cand intr-o familie apare un bebelus cu dizabilitati, 
	universul familial se dezintegreaza pentru o perioada.<o:p></o:p></span></strong></p>
	<p class="auto-style5"><strong>Visurile legate de viitorul copil – cum va 
	arata, cu cine va semana, unde va merge la gradinita, care va fi primul 
	cuvant, ce meserie isi va alege - sunt inlocuite de vinovatie, furie, ura, 
	tristete – un amalgam de sentimente.<o:p></o:p></strong></p>
	<p class="auto-style4">&nbsp;<span class="auto-style3"><br class="auto-style1" />
	</span><span class="auto-style1"><span class="auto-style3">Cu cine seamana 
	un copil cu sindrom Down? Cu mama sau cu tata?<br />
	A cui este vina ca bebelusul are tetrapareza spastica? A medicului care … ? 
	A mamei care … ?<br />
	De ce mi se intampla tocmai mie?</span></span></p>
	<p class="auto-style5">Cu ce am gresit?</p>
	<p class="auto-style5">Etc. Etc.&nbsp; Etc.</p>
	<p class="auto-style4"><span class="auto-style1"><span class="auto-style3"><br />
	<strong>Suportul in aceasta perioada inseamna sa fii alaturi de familie 
	atunci cand nu mai are putere sa ceara acest lucru si sa ii oferi spatiu 
	atunci cand are nevoie. </strong><br />
	<br />
	In perioada postnatala cand alte familii cu un bebelus se adapteaza la noua 
	situatie, parintii unui copil cu dizabilitati au senzatia ca traiesc un vis 
	urat. Multe mamici nu-si mai amintesc primele luni, sau se inchid in casa si 
	plang...sau alearga la diversi specialisti cautand sfaturi, solutii.<br />
	</span></span><b><span class="auto-style3"><span class="auto-style1"><br />
	</span></span><strong><span class="auto-style1"><span class="auto-style3">
	Parintii pot&nbsp; nega diagnosticul si pot oscila intre speranta de a 
	infirma si durerea confirmarii diagnosticului.</span></span><o:p></o:p></strong></b></p>
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	<span class="auto-style1">Acesta este motivul pentru care, uneori, chiar 
	daca au unele banuieli, parintii ignora inconstient sau minimalizeaza unele 
	simptome, mai ales in cazul dizabilitatilor care nu sunt vizibile imediat 
	dupa nastere – ca autismul.</span></p>
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	<span class="auto-style1">In momentul confirmarii diagnosticului unii 
	parinti sunt coplesiti de sentimente de vinovatie. Apar intrebari de genul: 
	“Ce am facut?,”Cu ce sunt de vina?”, iar partenerii se pot invinovati 
	reciproc. Daca mai sunt copii in cuplu ei pot simti tensiunea si agitatia 
	induse de noua situatie.<br />
	Parintii mai pot simti furie, neputinta si o mare dorinta de a se izola, de 
	a-si trai durerea singuri ca indivizi sau impreuna ca familie care se simte 
	“stigmatizata”.</span></p>
	<p class="auto-style5"><strong><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></strong></p>
	<p class="auto-style6"><strong><span class="auto-style3">Toate aceste 
	procese sunt normale si dureaza o perioada de timp necesara unei noi 
	organizari.</span></strong><span class="auto-style3"><br />
	<br />
	Imaginea bebelusului din mintea ambilor parinti, anterioara nasterii, se 
	ajusteaza realitatii concrete. Un mare suport in aceasta perioada vine de la 
	parinti aflati in situatii similare, a caror companie este cautata si 
	pretuita.</span></p>
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	<strong>In procesul de consiliere al familiilor copiilor cu dizabilitati 
	recuperarea incepe o data cu acceptarea situatiei concrete din aici si acum.<o:p></o:p></strong></p>
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	<strong>Obiectivele terapeutice pornesc de la consilierea familiei si 
	asigura sustinerea copilului/familiei in vederea recuperarii (in ritmul 
	propriu al copilului si respectand particularitatile acestuia) punand accent 
	pe realizarea unei echipe formate din familie alaturi de specialistii 
	implicati: medic, psiholog, kinetoterapeut, logoped.</strong><br />
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	<![endif]></span><strong><o:p></o:p></strong></p>
	<p class="auto-style5"><strong>Giorgiana Corina Cristea<o:p></o:p></strong></p>
	<p class="auto-style5">Psiholog clinician</p>
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